tell me this

Why is it that, "Do something for yourself." means "Do what I think is right for you."?
Yes, I'm amending my eating habits...for gods sake, you talk about slim fast like I'm shoving my finger down my throat. I'm not going to go all diet crazy ...I just want to get some things under control...it was a decision I reached for MYSELF! Can't you just be happy that I'm trying to improve a small portion of my life?
I appreciate the concern...I really do... but don't tell me what you think I should do...I won't listen, I can guarantee it...I am stubborn beyond reason.
and hey, by the way...
Don't tell me my best friend is "bad for me" and that "you feel sorry for me"...you know what? FUCK YOU!
She is my best friend...what right do you have to tell me that you "feel sorry for me"...sorry that I am lucky enough to have her as my best friend?
I'm sorry you don't understand...you never will...because it doesn't make sense to you...you don't see the reciprocity in our friendship...yes, I do get stressed easily...but don't pin that on her! how I handle life events is MY problem...don't push them on her.
Just because I don't seem to aspire to the same goals you do, doesn't mean I'm not out there trying to make something of myself...just because I'm not dating anyone...just because I don't really want to date anyone right now...doesn't mean I'm a failure!
I went through HELL for awhile, and you know what? Believe it or not, I am much happier now than I ever was with a boyfriend.
I guess you just don't understand what it's like to have meaningful relationships without being "in a relationship"...
I'm so confused...people that say they care about me...and want "what's best for me"...don't appreciate when I try and take steps to help myself...they just heap on more criticism...
mother fucker.
it's not like I'm not trying!
I want MORE...I want my life to mean something...and you know, sometimes that doesn't happen instantaneously...sometimes you have to wait...be patient...for the right moment to come along.
I am sick and fucking tired of people telling me what I can or cannot do...
most people don't even know me anyways...they think they know, but they have no idea...